Straight friends are great for practicing my gay jokes. My gay friends can be like “shut the f-ck up Carina literally everyone knows you’re gay” but my straight friends feel like they have to laugh or it’s homophobic so they laugh at every single joke and honestly that’s the type of validation I need in my life.
accepting that you’re objectively weird & owning it is infinitely better than being constantly desperate to appear normal to people who don’t even matter to you





